Logistics: Are the ceremony and reception at the same place?
Yes! Once you find us at
CAMERON ESTATES INN,
1855 MANSION LANE,
MOUNT JOY, PA 17552
your not allowed to leave (Just kidding. Sort of.).
The ceremony will be held in the Conservatory.
The reception will be held in the Carriage House.
Logistics: What time should I arrive to the ceremony?
The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30 in the Conservatory. To help us ensure the wedding starts on time, we suggest arriving at 4 no earlier than 3:45 to give yourself time to settle in. We'd love for you to be there to witness our vows, not stuck in traffic!
Logistics: Is there parking?
Yes, there is plenty of complimentary on-site parking between the Conservatory and the Carriage House. So save your energy for the dance floor, not for finding a good parking spot!
Logistics: Are there any local accommodations?
Need a place to crash after the party? Cameron Estates Inn has 22 one-of-kind rooms that can be booked on their website. For the more adventurous, feel free to explore nearby options listed under accommodations tab.
Guest Information: How and when should guest RSVP?
Please use RSVP tab to tell us if you'll be there by NOVEMBER 15, 2025. We need to give our caterer a final head count or they might just have to order a whole lot of sad, sad salads for us.
Please, please don't make us chase you down. Our sanity depends on a response by NOVEMBER 15, 2025
Guest Information: Can a guest bring a plus one?
We're keeping things cozy, and the only plus ones are the people already listed on the invitations. Thanks for understanding!
Guest information: Are young children allowed to attend?
Although we love your little ones, we are only able to accommodate children in the wedding party. Please note that the invitation was made to be an adults-only event.
Guest Information: Can I change my RSVP after submitting it?
Things happen- we get it! Just reach out as soon as you can so we can plan accordingly.
Guest Information: What is the dress code?
Our dress code is 'formal but fun.' Think long dresses or elegant cocktail dresses for the ladies and suits or sport coats for the gentlemen. No jeans, please—this isn't a backyard BBQ.
Food and Drinks: Will dinner be served?
A delightful dinner will be served! You can choose your main meal when you RSVP. Rest assured, it won't be that boring chicken dish.
Food and Drinks: Can dietary restrictions/allergies be accommodated?
Absolutely! Let us know when you RSVP. We tried to select menu options to cover all dietary needs. If your restriction is not covered please contact us and we will happily arrange something for you. The only restricion we wont be able to accommodate is french fries only (you know who we are talking about).
Food and Drink: Will there be an open bar?
Let's just say our financial advisor advised us against it, but our wedding planner strongly advised us to proceed. So- Bottoms up!
But please, if you start giving a tearful, slurring toast, someone will cut you off- we haven't saved enough for the kind of entertainment.
Food and drink: What if I don't drink alcohol?
We'll have plenty of delicious mocktails and non-alcoholic options available. We want everyone to enjoy the night, not just those with a taste for adult beverages. Our bartenders are top-notch, so you won't be stuck with just plain ol' water.
Social Media and Photos: Are you having an unplugged ceremony?
We love seeing your photos, but we've asked our professional photographer to the official shots. We'd love for everyone to be present with us during the ceremony, so please keep phones away, until officiant gives the Ok. We promise to give you a moment of your own shots (hint- there will be a QR code to collect them all) and still share professional photos afterwards!
Social Media and Photos: Can I take and post pictures on social media?
Yes! Please and thank you! The only condition is that you use our hashtag and QR code that will be available on our big day for us all to enjoy your masterpieces. A photo that's not on Instagram didn't really happen, right?
Just don't get so caught up in the perfect pose that you forget to actual enjoy the day with us.
Other Tid Bits and traditions: Is there a registry?
Your presence at the wedding is the greatest gift, but if you insist on bestowing a physical object upon us we would be happy to receive anything that brings a smile to your face!
If you would prefer to avoid a mystery we've registered at Target and Amazon for items that will make our future home a little more functional and a lot more fun. Just click on the "registry" tab on our website.
Other Tid Bits and Traditions: Ceremony Unity
The unity strand of three cords, also called a "Cord of Three Strands" or "God's Knot," is a wedding ceremony tradition where the couple braids three cords together to symbolize their union with God. This ritual is often performed after the vows and can represent the bride, groom, and God being joined as one. This act symbolizes that the marriage is not just a joining of two lives, but a covenant relationship with God at the center.
The strands can be any color, but traditional choices include purple for the groom, white for the bride, and gold for God.
Ecclesiastes 4:12 'Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.'
Other Tid bits and Traditions: Apron Dance
An heirloom apron made by bride's great-grandmother has been passed down to be used for the traditional Hispanic "money dance." The apron dance is also a Polish tradition that dates back to the old country.
This cultural tradition is when guest line up to pay for a dance with either bride or groom. In effort to keep up with the times we've decided to modernize. We will be on the dance floor accepting cash or Venmo.
Think of it as a chance to show off your moves with the newlyweds with out the pressure of a full song. A win-win- you get to your 30 seconds, and we get a little extra spending money.
Other Tid Bits and traditions: The Hora
The bride's paternal grandmother and maternal great grandfather were of Jewish decent. Although no longer here their Jewish heritage is still celebrated.
The Hora:
Guests form a circle, often while "Hava Nagila" plays, and dance around the couple.
The chair lift:
As the dance progresses, strong guests lift the bride and groom on chairs.
Symbolism:
This action represents the couple being spiritually elevated closer to God and physically celebrated by their community. It's a public acknowledgment of their new, blessed status as a married couple.
Napkin:
The couple may hold a napkin between them while in the air.